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THE Personal Development That Doesn't Suck                              THE FOUR STAGES OF LIFE L ife is a bitch. Then you die. So while staring at my navel the other day, I decided that that bitch happens in four stages. Here they are. STAGE ONE: MIMICRY We are born helpless. We can’t walk, can’t talk, can’t feed ourselves, can’t even do our own damn taxes. As children, the way we’re wired to learn is by watching and mimicking others. First we learn to do physical skills like walk and talk. Then we develop social skills by watching and mimicking our peers around us. Then, finally, in late childhood, we learn to adapt to our culture by observing the rules and norms around us and trying to behave in such a way that is generally considered acceptable by society. The goal of Stage One is to teach us how to function within society so that we can be autonomous, self-sufficient adults. The idea is that the adults in the community around us help us to reach this
                            AS YOU THINK SO YOU ARE. The world around YOU can change, but your DREAM will not change. Your DREAM is within you, no one can take it away from you. Positive DREAMS reaps positive results. Your future lies in your dreams. What you see is what you get. Positive DREAMS will take you to the highest heights, and of course negative dreams will take you to the lowest depth. Dreaming good is the first step to success in life. Who you will be tomorrow What you will be tomorrow  is what you are in your dreams today.  who you are in your dreams today. No success,wealth acquisition,prosperity,promotion happens unless you DREAM IT first. and until you start having dreams of all the great things, of all the good works you will like to do your dreams and goals remain just dreams and ultimately with few disappointments. when you dream it  then you can dream your future into existence.  A dream had is a dream pursued,worked on,nurtured,protected to make come tru
The winning mindset Are you unhappy when others are succeeding? Does your success seem dependent on someone else’s failure? “Keeping up with the Joneses” is an expression that is commonly used to describe the attitude of always wanting to keep up with the neighbours in terms of possessions and wanting to have the things that our neighbours have. Envy is another word that can be used to describe this frame of mind. This is a very appropriate word because it encompasses greed, jealousy, resentment and a strong desire for something somebody else has, usually at whatever cost. The winning mindset - origins Unfortunately, it is an attitude that is widespread, not only in Zambia, but all over the world. Throughout our childhood and most of our adult life, competition is the order of the day. Right from our school days we are taught that our self worth is measured in relation to other people. At school, our grading system gives you a number at the end of the term. If you “pass
Before we begin, let me first ask you this simple questions. 1. Do you believe that one day you could actually live the life u dream of and not the world that is been given to you?  Don't worry. This won't bend your mind nor twist your brain. It's a no-brainer, actually. Ok, here it goes: 2.  What do Superman, Spiderman, Batman, the X-men, and the Incredible Hulk have in common? See, it's easy, right? Yes, they all have supernatural powers – special abilities that make them supreme, invincible and indestructible, and which cause them to be recognized as superheroes. They use these special powers to do good things to people and defeat evil entities. But, unfortunately, they are not real. They are only works of man's creative imagination. They don't exist in the real world. That's why, unlike in comic books and movies, when our city is in trouble, there is no superhero to call to save the day. It really seems to be too good to be true, isn't it?