MORE THAN JUST A MARRIAGE BUT                              
                                                    A 
                                    PERFECT MARRIAGE
     WHAT IS MARRIAGE?
     WHY WAS IT CREATED?
     WHO INSTITUTED MARRIAGE?
    

 Yet in my lonely state of the mind, this matter arouse my thinking faculty to wondering about the whole marriage factor thing. while at it, the questions flow through my mind, through my spirit, through my heart relentlessly, over and over again, i observe the people around me those that are married, those that are about to, those whose gone in and now they're out of it, those who has sworn on their life to never dabble into this institute you can never graduate out of, then it baffles, what each our perspectives are about the character of "LOVE and MARRIAGE"

       WHAT IS MARRIAGE?

 Like many of us will like to define, the coming together of two different people before the existence of the whole same sex madness,preferably a male factor and a female factor. This definition has done justice to at least the main foundation of marriage, but to do justice to this very word there is a need for some level of spirituality here, and for as long as we want to keep doing this marriage thing without letting the spiritual control the physical, there is a chance that we will continue to get it wrong.

  Marriage is not a babies thing, but A COMMANDMENT by our CREATOR, okay this isn't suppose to be a sermon but just to let us all know that God instituted marriage, God commanded marriage, we get married not for ourselves but we get married for God. That being said i will go ahead and say a little about how marriage was intended to be as ordained by God, and be not deceived, when it comes to marriage, no man, no pastor, no Councillor can tell you everything about it, they only can give you the specifics and leave you with the generic.

Just for the record i am not married yet, i hope to be someday, this comes with the understanding of a sense of responsibility that to all men, women are God's treasure in our bank account who you will account for how good and bad you manage this treasure.Men can be so unbelievable, i am one myself so i am not exempted,for crying out loud, how can you love a woman so much, you marry her, she carried your baby and at the end of it all, you look at this same woman,and you eat her up. allow me say this, to every man that has beaten his wife,God is not disappointed in you, in fact you are better off a thousand men out there in the world who instead did not just beat their wife but kill their wives in the heart,,, you got so angry at her that you cannot say anything and you just swallowed it up and decided to keep it in you, and mind you that is the greatest of sin which you can never receive forgiveness for because,"sins committed the heart can never be forgiven because you can't confess them". that is subject to discussion.

  I will love to share a little story about a beast in a great man's form .

      With love and care were they well known to all, cherished, envied, coveted, in fact their love was indeed the stuff of the legend, with every kiss, with every hug, with every smile, with every love shared, i wish so much in my heart that my happy ending should be just like theirs,little did i know that the sayings "all that glitters are not  gold". We all just assumed them to be the best of family about town until it was glaring to all of our eyes that nothing is as it seems,exchange of some harsh words, some threats observed, exit of visitor, dusk cometh, then smack down,such was the bitter experience she got form a promising future of a early aged marriage,, could she have foresaw that,i wouldn't know?, but i do know this, nobody wants to marry a beast for a man,  not one that will kill you at a very young age leaving you with some flowers right there on you grave.

Me as for one, I REFUSE TO BE A BEAST,

     Nothing can be over flogged in marriage, every details, every information,they all matter, and yet we still wanna get married, GOD HELP US.

    What does a perfect marriage looks like?

i will say here that a marriage can only be perfect when you make it to be one, two different people working together to achieve one single goal, i will all that "PERFECTION". without slapping,hitting,beating,pouncing on, but with the deepest of affection, speaking to each other, managing each others fault, marriage ain't never gonna be a bed of roses,

First, you will both live in you GARDEN OF EDEN,

Then, you graduate into the wilderness,

And most importantly should you fight the fight with each other holding on to the God of creation that you can make it, YOU WILL BE IN YOUR CANAAN LAND(Your new Jerusalem, the land that flows with milk and honey) we all want that, it is not just by a on mans work, it's all about you needing me and i needing you, show me a who does no shit and i will show you a man full of shit.

My little to share message will come to an end here, but my words still remains, and i will love to take the time out to appreciate the woman with whom i am gradually realizing what a perfect home should be like, realizing how much she has put into me,i say may God bless you, OYEWALE OMOWUNMI, OLUWATOBI.....

Thanks for reading. it is but just the beginning.

with love. ANDREW MARCH